WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING! You've been looking at profiles for an hour and you're about to fall asleep. WAKE UP! Your search is over. I'm a Beluga and hot wings to Armani and blue jeans kind of guy. I enjoy life – fine wine, science fiction, slurpees, theatre, rubber duckies, romance, biking, Make a Wish Foundation, good conversation, great music, TED videos, fine dining and peaceful silence. You'll find I am calm, confident, have a great sense of humor, am ridiculously bright, taught humility to Mother Theresa and am hugely affectionate. I'm the eternal optimist and will always look for (and find) the silver lining. I am a gourmet chef and can cook a bunch of mysterious dishes. All you have to do is bring the wine (and not one that comes in a box.) I love to sing (badly). I love the magic of traveling to new places. I value time spent with friends, silliness, fine arts, warm people and witty conversation. I have two college aged kids (and a dog) that think I'm kinda cool. I'm outgoing, spiritual, confident, refined and accomplished (I've counted to infinity...twice). I'm attractive (I'm told) a sharp dresser and I'm never, ever sick at sea. So, stop reading and start writing. Let's get to know each other.