I'm sensitive, honest (sometimes to a fault), a giver looking for another giver in a mate. I have a good sense of humor. But I also have a definite serious side. I love deep conversations, am psychologically oriented, a thinker with a high level of consciousness, intelligent, insightful & creative. I like writing. I can think "out of the box" (very ingenious). I have a strong spiritual side. I love music & books (mostly autobiographies & memoirs). I'm highly empathetic to the pain, challenges & struggles of others (even strangers). I will often give the shirt off my back to someone else, then realize I need it! I see the world in shades of grey & don't connect well with people who see it in "black & white". I see everything from a human aspect, am very tolerant, non-judgmental & open-minded. I'm practical but romantic at heart. I'm kind, warm, accepting of all kinds of people from all walks of life, both Jew and non-Jew alike (but am seeking Orthodox for marriage purposes). I tend to see & focus on the good in other people & situations. I see something that can be learned from almost anyone. I'm a "soft touch above all" (according to my sister who wrote a composition about me in 8th grade, which I recently found & got a good laugh from). I'm affectionate, positive, REAL, playful & fun-loving. My personality has some mischief, but not to the extent of going outside social norms. I'm a very curious person. If I hear about a topic that interests me, I'll surf the web to learn anything & everything about it. I am adventurous, flexible, positive & optimistic. I'm considered attractive, younger than my years in appearance, demeanor, personality & spirit. (Someone recently mistook me for being in my thirties & was shocked to hear my real age. Someone else recently mistook me for being in my early forties. Then they start to argue with me about my own age! (But who would ever lie to be older? Maybe a kid, but not an adult, and certainly not a woman!) But I am mature in values & life views. I'm very down to earth & very easy to be with & talk to. I'm more Jewish than American at my core, but do appreciate & enjoy (some) pop culture. I'm very into self-growth & would like a partner who is open to growth as well. My color chart is accurate, with an almost even mix of yellow (fun), blue (loyal & intimacy-oriented) & white (as I like to keep the peace & enjoy peaceful relaxation), but not much of red (power) at only 2%, 'cause I'm a very "live & let live" type of person. I prefer to follow rather than lead, though I am worldly & do have my own opinions & philosophies to contribute. I'm not aggressive, but may be gently persistent at times to get at the underlying truth (usually psychological). I'm an ENFP according to the Myers-Briggs personality test. For a description of ENFP, look at: http://www.truity.co m/enfp (the most accurate description of me, except that I don't like fiction & was no trouble in school! You must read all 3 pages (tab on bottom right of page) because some points on the 2nd & 3rd page are amazingly accurate) or http://typelogic.com /enfp.html (pretty accurate), or http://personalitypa ge.com/html/ENFP.htm l, though I take exception with some of the negative traits described in the last one, which I don't think apply to me. But it said some of those traits only apply to an ENFP that has "gone wrong", so either I've "gone right" or I'm just in denial (LOL).