This isn't about making the perfect match, ask any of your married friends, and it’s not about compromise. Wow would be great! Lucky would be better! Instant messaging, emails, even phone calls really don’t mean a thing. It’s just theater of the mind. It’s about eyeball-to-eyeball in person meetings. It’s about creating opportunities and being pleasantly surprised. And wouldn’t that be great! I am successfully self employed for 32 years and have created a wonderful career for myself with a very flexible schedule. I'm solid and dependable, thoughtful and considerate. A good planner, and I know how to make things happen. More importantly, I can share how I feel and you can stick my baggage, fortunately, in a small knapsack. I exercise regularly and get a massage every two weeks. I come with golf clubs and have been playing for 45 years. Golf creates a great balance for me in my life. I'm not interested in meeting anyone out of state, and I don't respond to teases or flirts.