I'm normal within all my different facets, but the facets aren't normally juxtaposed...yeshivi sh frum, but a deadhead and somewhat disenfranchised from that haskafah, so I'm necessarily less strict than once. I like going out to live music, and sitting home and reading books, or writing, or entertaining friends (for shabbat!), and exploring. I am open to other activities if I had company... Basically..how many frum deadheads with a phd, not hassidic, who like baseball, hiking, good wine and single malt liquor are you likely to meet? You know the rap: my friends say I'm a great person, can't figure it out...blah blah... I do have great friends, and all different kinds, but they're all kind and intelligent.