I'm pretty sure I can make you laugh, most of the time with me not at me. I ask a lot of questions, and listen to the answers. I am calm in a crisis, and generally resourceful in most situations. I'm a consultant and writer. (We're not defined by our careers, but I like what I do.) I've never been married, but many ex-girlfriends have tried to fix me up, so I don't think the situation is hopeless. I am open to all sorts of possibilities about kids: having my own with someone I meet, growing to love her kids if more are not in the cards or simply continuing to focus on my nephews and nieces, a source of joy since I became an uncle at 12. I was raised to believe that generosity should guide most of our choices and actions, and trying to help fix the world is a big part of who I am. I come from a big family and have a full social life, but I know how to make time for people that matter. I play touch football in the winter. I travel a lot. I see lots of movies and plays. I love to read. Yoga changed my life.