I am creative and like to have fun, but I am not into games or BS. I have been through "alot" as most have, so I am very honest and I am looking for a friend as well as MAYBE a lover or relationship, but I will not force chemistry; it is either there or it isn't. Friends and family come first and I am not into being controlled or TOLD what to do. IF asked, I MIGHT. Mostly, I LOVE to LAUGH and joke, and I DO like to talk..from NEW JERSEY!! I can be serious when NECESSARY! I have and love DOGs and reading books, watching movies (not the sappy love stories or corny comedies REAL FILMS) I love to cook, lay in the sun, listen to music and did I mention LAUGHING is important?? Anyway, this is not anything I take too seriously as I am a firm believer in FATE and not a control freak myself. Motorcycles are cool and I like TOUGH ROUGH around the edges men that are not MEAN. I like going out as much as staying in sometime maybe I will like you too! I am spiritual and actually read the Torah because I get something out of doing so...not because I HAVE TO OR I was raised Jewish..