I am my own person with a very compassionate and empathetic side of me. I really need someone who is more on the emotional side who is not afraid to compare feelings, thoughts, ideas, interests etc... I live for hot steamy chemistry between us and really need that to thrive with someone. I don't think having certain degrees, titles, or what you have in the bank account matters much. OK, a bank account does help, but you get the idea. lol I am unpretentious, and very honest. I hope that the person I find in my life would have the need to be monagomous too. I have no hidden agenda other than finding someone I can relate too and enjoy. Someone out there should also be eager to meet my friends and be socially able to mingle and interact on their own if I leave the room for 5 minutes.