I am an outgoing professional, who enjoys the finer things in life without forgetting from whence I came. I have had some successes in my life and I have the confidence that comes with it. I grew up frum, did my straying/rebellion thing, but now I am comfortable balancing the two and would like a frum family (not "wear a hat" frum, but shabbos and kosher, etc.). I enjoy laughing, even at my own expense (which is usually the case) and I tend to have a biting sense of humor. I don't let people in my life that easily. This is not the best trait to have, I know, but I stay fiercely loyal to those that do make it. I have many acqauintences, but few friends and I consider myself lucky to be able to recognize the difference between the two. I am an honest person (sometimes TOO honest) who can be diplomatic and schmooze with the best of them. I am flexible on some matters, not flexible on others, and I am not good at playing "games", so I don't.