They say the first step in addressing a problem is acknowledging it. So here I am, on the jdate, ready to face my demons. I love challah. There, I said it. Morning, noon, night, jam, no jam, coffee, tea, it really doesn’t matter. Just show me the challah. I’m not sure I am ready to change, but at least I have acknowledged it. If you can live with that, my deepest, most-darkest most-innermost secret, then I think we’ll be all right.