Listen, JDate, c'mere a second, because we need to have a little talk. I've been to a bunch of your affiliated events and events like your affiliated events, and what I always see is a room full of mostly smart, often accomplished people who are all capable of looking decently attractive if they put in a little effort, and every single person in there thinks they're too good for all the members of the opposite sex in the room. Also, there are always three girls every guy has his eye on, and three guys every girl has her eye on, and nobody ever gets it together to half-competently hit on any of these six people. So let's try and pull it together and see if we can be a little more adventurous with approaching strangers and asking semi-creative questions, and, reciprocally, keep an open mind about all the nutjobs approaching us, okay? We're all New Yorkers here, right? *** Some brief notes on me: NYC native and former corporate bankruptcy lawyer seeks MBA in New Haven, woman in her 20s-to-early-30s, for karaoke, political debate, complaining about tourists in midtown Manhattan.