I like to do things for people, but do not like if its expected. I like to make people laugh, but have been known to be very sarcastic in my attempts. I like to work and my career is very important to me, but I also love to spend time with my family and friends. Not much of a club person (cant dance:), but I enjoy a bar or going out to eat, I've even been know to aimlessly drive around NY w/ my friends just to hang out. No matter what type of relationship, I believe trust and reliability are most important. I will go out of my way to do what I can for those who are close to me. I am an extremely honest person and expect the same in return. If you ask me if a pair of pants look good, and they don’t, I'll probably tell you..lol.
I place a great deal of importance on attraction, but that does not only mean aesthetics. I find that chemistry is the hardest thing to come by and don’t know how to describe its presence. I would like to meet a nerd of sorts. A woman who enjoys laughing at the silly as well as someone who appreciates a little intellectual banter, especially when we disagree. Somebody who enjoys both watching a mindless TV show from time to time as much as she enjoys listening to a lecture or reading a book about a topic of interest. I don’t often have a filter and will speak my mind however on the same note very little offends me, so I expect to be called out as well. Over all, I am looking for someone who is responsible, ambitious, smart sweet and wants to be taken care of as much as she wants to take care of others.