I am interested in the world and what’s going on around me, but I’m not so intense that I can't appreciate the absurd. I don't want to die with a lot of regrets, so I'll take risks from career shifts to wearing my heart on my sleeve.I am a Man not a Boy, I'm not still trying to figure Women out, and I won't talk out of school about you, or us, to my guy friends (a relationship is really only between two people). I want you to have a life, hobbies, and spend time with friends, and not to mind when I do. I like to wear jeans and flip flops but clean up very nicely. I'm affectionate and passionate and I put a high value on loyalty.I'll stand up for myself and I can be firm, but I play fair. In my opinion, there is never, under any circumstances, any reason to say mean or hurtful things to another person. Unnecessary relationship drama is a waste of creative energy. I believe a strong partnership is based on respect, caring, and friendship .It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain! I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
Some of my other characteristics are that I'm: honest, loving, a gentleman, intelligent, a good conversationalist, sensual, passionate, (a good kisser), monogamous, articulate & well-spoken (with a sexy, radio announcer's voice). I am dont drink alcohol (i.e.Milk and juice), smoke-free, drug-free & disease-free.I am NOT into head games, or drama, and NOT a "player."What type of woman do I want to meet? (Well, hopefully, you. -)) I feel that it's important for you & I to have similar (but not necessarily identical) values & interests. I am not after body type,facial looks or age,what matter is the inside.I want her to be someone I can trust, respect, admire, and lust for. I want to enjoy my life and I want her to be part of that joy!