My ideal relationship:
For starters, one in which both people are as concerned with each others happiness as their own, where two people are willing to compromise without being forced to compromise themselves, a true partnership, no games. Sometimes opposites attract, and when given the chance, they're almost perfect, while other times they're just, well, opposites. The thing is, you'll never know unless you respect one another enough to communicate your feelings and understand your partner's perspective.
My past relationships:
I think we learn so much from all of our relationships, that it's hard to narrow this down too greatly, but two constants that jump out at me are, 1) Reciprocity and mutual respect have to exist from the beginning, and 2) There has to be the same set of rules for both people.
I am looking for a:
I would like to meet someone who challenges me on a number of levels and whose opinion I cannot wait to get when those big questions arise. Someone with whom I am anxious to share ideas, goals, perspectives and time but also has aspirations of their own and understands that sometimes, we all need our individual space and when we ask for it, it's not personal. Now that all the serious stuff is out of the way, I want someone with whom I can have fun, travel, relax and once in a while get drunk! (That's right!) A person with whom, everything just seems better. Realistically, physical attraction is important. That's not to say it can't develop over time but I don't know if this is the forum where that would occur- just being honest.
My perfect first date:
For getting to know someone new, a nice restaurant with a bit of a lively vibe is ideal for me; nothing too busy but also nothing too quiet. I think it's best to avoid that "job interview" vibe.
My Ideal Match
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Age Range:
26 to 32
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Relationship Status:
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Religious Background:
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Education Level:
Bachelor's Degree, Master's Degree, JD/Ph.D/Postdoctoral
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Drinking Habits
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Smoking Habits:
Non-Smoker