Dear Gems from Jen,
I am very new at this and very nervous. I too send out Flirts and emails and get one response and that’s it. Any suggestions on “spicing” up my profile? I am simple and down to earth. A true romantic and don’t seem to be able to keep anyone interested. Is it normal to always chat and never meet face to face? Thanks
Dear New And Nervous,
Everyone’s experience on JDate is unique. I’m not so sure there is a “norm” that applies to any one person using the site. My best suggestion is to make sure your profile really, truly describes who you are and the qualities you are searching for. Make sure your pictures are up to date and really portray what you are all about. For instance, if you state in your profile that cooking is a favorite activity, make certain to use a picture that shows you cooking and having a great time doing it. When describing the qualities you are searching for be specific, but allow room for compromise. Only pick a small number of qualities that you are unwilling to compromise on. It has been my experience that no one will meet every criterion so make sure you are not too specific. Keep sending Flirts and emails. Devote some time to this process and don’t expect immediate results. Good things tend to be worth the wait!
Gems from Jen