Recently JDate passed on to me some fan mail. This is significant because my blogger moniker is different than my profile moniker so it is a little hard to locate me (shhh). Well, I’m flattered. Who knew MOTs followed the blogs. I’ve never claimed to be a therapist, a dating expert or the like. I’m just a thirty-something caught between the Moon and New York City (name that movie/song for $100 bonus) looking for her Lobster (as Ross so eloquently put it on the TV show Friends).