She doesn’t drink, AT ALL. Red flag?

by jpompey under Online Dating,Single Life

Every now and then you will see a profile or meet a girl that says she does not drink at all.  While this may not be a big deal for some people, it can be awfully tough for those of us that are casual drinkers.

But regardless if you care whether or not you have a drinking partner, is this a red flag?

I personally have always been creeped out and wary of people that say they NEVER drink.  Unless they have an addiction problem, I see this as a strange behavior.  And to tell the truth, I am not really sure why.

Perhaps I view this person subconsciously as being socially inept.  Or perhaps I view them as boring without ever getting to know them.

Are these judgements fair?  Probably not.  Call me stubborn, but they will never change.  Am I the only one who feels this way or is not drinking at all a red flag that something is off?!

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2 Responses to “She doesn’t drink, AT ALL. Red flag?”

  1. Teah Says:

    I think this is the most rediculous blog you could ever post.
    I would rather be with somebody who doesn’t drink than somebody who needs a beer or wine with dinner every night just to relax.
    I think it is stranger behavior to have to drink to have fun or relax.
    There is someone for everyone and obviously you need to be with a drinker, the addictive personality you seem to be trying to stay away from.

  2. Paulie_tx Says:

    Having left my alcolic partner, I’d casually ask if “NEVER” drinks is accurate. She could just be playing nice girl. Maybe a compromise, if needed. But enjoy the dating. Now you KNOW via red flags, fanfare, and fireworks display if there’s an alcoholism

    I’d give anything to rekindle with my sober, vivacious, ex partner.

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