Do you live for today or do you plan for tomorrow? Do you live your life with a sense of urgency? Are you working on your best self in order to meet your Beshert now or do you put off losing weight, signing up for JDate, going to a Jewish event, and so on for another day because you just can’t deal with it right now? And then do you complain how hard the dating world is and how you can’t meet anyone? Get busy and do it now! Stop kvetching about being single while you’re sitting home on a Saturday night! If you don’t put yourself out there — or at least work towards bettering yourself to put your best self out there in the very near future — then YOU WILL NOT MEET ANYONE. Get off your tuchus and get going!