How does your story end after your trip to Israel where you met your Beshert?
I Want to Know
Luckily, the story has a happy ending. We decided I would extend my trip by one week, and we spent that time together getting to know each other and having fun. On my last night he asked if I would move to Israel to be with him, and I did just that! I quit my job, put my stuff in storage and moved to Israel so we could see if this was the “real deal.” Ten months later he proposed, and we eventually moved back to the States where we settled down, got married and started a family.
I truly believe that I had to kiss my fair share of frogs until I found my Prince. Although I didn’t learn something from each date or each relationship, I learned from enough of them that I was able to recognize both who he was and who I am when I’m with him. It was tough going at the time, but in hindsight it was all worth it.
My friend is beaming..brighter than headlights and I couldn’t be happier for her. She deserves it, we all do, but I’m giddy just hearing how happy she is ..almost a transferred aphrodisiac living momentarily vicariously through her sweet adventures.
Although I think the success of relationships generally come down to at least 65-70% timing, my general thoughts are only on occasion do relationships work the 2nd time around. Usually the same issues/problems still exist unless they have really been attended to and dealt with, etc. (i.e. can’t fry the same egg twice). BUT once in awhile it does happen successfully. My friend’s case seems to be frying sunny side up and hopefully will continue to sizzle at the same heat for months, even years to come. As for the future who knows, but all we have is the Now, and it looks bright and that is a great start.