JDate profiles are really hard to mess up. They’re also really hard to get right. It seems that most of the profiles I have come across fall between these two extremes. According to the JDate population, every Jewish person on earth is easygoing, fun, loves friends, and loves to laugh. Let’s examine these four characteristics.
First, I love easygoing people, but it’s getting a little cliché when people describe themselves as ‘easygoing.’ I think that being easygoing is a prerequisite for being on JDate. Thus, there is no reason to describe oneself as such. I already assume that you are easygoing because you are chatting with strangers and going out on dates with people whom you have never met in person. Putting ‘easygoing’ in your profile makes it sound like you’re trying really hard to be easygoing, but are actually extremely demanding and tough to work with. Easygoing people are way too cool to have to describe themselves in this way. I would be really interested in a girl who claims to be inflexible and difficult in her profile. I would take her out based on curiosity and on the fact that there’s no way she’s ever been on a date in her life.
Let’s move on to ‘fun’ people. This word is similar in meaning to ‘easygoing’, and thus doesn’t need a very long analysis. Again, people are going to assume that you’re fun, or else they wouldn’t talk or go out with you. Unless you’re really hot.
Now we are at people who love their friends. According to JDate, people love to go out of their way to say that they love their friends. However, the word ‘friend’ itself implies that you have affection, otherwise you wouldn’t have friends. Therefore, I think that it would be more correct to say, “I have friends.” Actually, don’t say that either. You’re trying too hard. I know that you love your friends.
Finally, we have people who ‘love to laugh.’ This is the most confusing and troubling thing to say about yourself. Who hates to laugh? Really? You do? Then why are you laughing? The act of laughing itself is a testament to the fact that you love to laugh. Everybody loves to laugh. Laughing is fun and great. Again, if you hate to laugh, I would love to take you out just based purely on curiosity.