A lot of things, unexpected, complicated, fragile, fleeting, tough, fun, mysterious, serendipitous, comical… a friend passed last week unexpectedly. Sadly, in our busy lives it often takes a tragedy to make you stop and reassess things. Your priorities. What matters most. How irrelevant some things are. How drama is a ridiculous waste of energy and how relationships really are what life is about. All the financial security in the world means nothing without someone to make your good times great and bad times bearable. Okay, I’ll get off of my soapbox. I guess such moments just make you realize you can search for that perfect fit all you want or you can choose to build a relationship and it may grow into what you had hoped for all along. I’m excited about that choice and retiring from the merry-go-round of dating.