Revisit Your Vision

by Tamar Caspi under JDate,Online Dating,Single Life


Growing up we all had dreams of how we saw our lives unfolding. We pursued the things we had control over, and worked hard to try and put certain things in place. But finding and falling in love is not necessarily something you can check off of your list so easily. That’s not how life works. Love is messy.

But, giving up that vision is difficult and can prevent us from seeing other — likely better — options standing right in front of us because we are so stuck trying to achieve the picture in our head of how it is supposed to be. That means being open to new things, things that may make us slightly uncomfortable at first, and playing around with that “preferences” section rather than simply inputting exactly what we think we want. You might find yourself happily surprised!

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Building Attraction with Females Part 2

by jpompey under Relationships

In my last blog (see below) I delved into the unique nature of the female mind.  The previous entry focused on the fact that the female mind can develop strong feelings of attraction towards a guy for many different reasons that have absolutely nothing to do with looks.   While these methods are all proven to generate attraction, they are largely unknown by much of the male population and what we will be discussing each week.

Today’s attraction builder – Showing that you have alpha male qualities.

What are alpha male qualities?

-       Being a leader among your social group.

-       Showing that you are a male that is confident and sure of himself.

-       Appearing to be somebody that could not only take care of himself, but take care of others, as well.

-       Having the ability to take charge of a situation when needed.

-       Acting ss if you are not “hopeful” that a female will give you a chance at a date but, rather, “knowing” that you will receive a date.

Why do these qualities result in attraction?  As we briefly touched upon last time, evolutionary instincts cause women to seek these types of men out.  To put it in Laymen’s terms, since the beginning of time women have sought out “protectors,” as well as men who could provide for them as a means of survival.  This still drives attraction in women to this day. In modern times the “protector” is seen as a man that has all the qualities of the alpha male described above.

How do we show all these qualities online?  Unfortunately I only have three paragraphs to provide online dating advice in this blog and discussing how to show them in detail would require much more.  Next time we will specifically discuss ways we can show these qualities online.

The Secrets to Building Attraction with Females Part 1

by jpompey under Relationships

What would you say if I told you that the looks you were born with have very little to do with attracting females online?

How about if I told you that not only do the looks you were born with not matter, but there are an additional nine ways to attract women?

Would you believe me?  Would you want this “secret” online dating advice?

Well this is not only 100% true, but these additional nine methods of building attraction can be achieved by any online dater.  Unfortunately, most men are not aware of these methods because society does very little when it comes to teaching men how the female mind actually works.  Most of us assume that rejected emails are a product of women not being attracted to the way we look, which is often far from the truth.

So why exactly are women attracted to us for reasons that have very little to do with the looks we are born with?

Most of this comes down to evolution.  Women have always sought out men who fit what they are instinctively programmed to become attracted to.   For the next few weeks I will be covering these different methods of building attraction in detail.  By the end of this blog series you should have nine brand new methods at your disposal to help you succeed at online dating.