There are enough people on JDate already that can help you through this online dating experience. But I have found that a good way to learn is through trial and error. When it comes to dating, I have tried many things, and failed miserably. As a result, I am able to tell you what not to do, from talking online to that intimidating first encounter. Each of my blog entries will try to focus on one thing you should try to avoid doing when talking to members of the opposite sex. Today’s lesson is on personal hygiene.
I don’t want to sound hypocritical here because I have not always been conscious about my hygiene. Though today my body is a beacon of unrestrained masculinity, it is also capable of emitting unconscionable odors if left unchecked. Though my body went through the obligatory motions of puberty a long time ago, its ramifications are still felt today.
Jewish sleep away camp was, for me, an epiphany spurring proper body odor maintenance. I had lived in Texas all my life, but had not yet lived for an extended period of time without air conditioning. Camp, for me, was a nightmare, until we all went to a peculiar place called Wal-Mart. It was there that I discovered one of man’s top three inventions of all time: antiperspirant/deodorant. And as a side note, why do they make and market deodorant that is not also antiperspirant? That seems counter-intuitive and cruel. Who’s armpits smell but don’t sweat? If yours do, tell me your secret!
In dating, personal hygiene is obviously important. On a first date, no, you don’t have to go all out and wear cologne and after shave, though my dad might disagree. Just remember the little things. For example, if you eat a bulb of raw garlic right before a date, just stay calm and think about your situation. Then brush your teeth for at least an hour.