Scenario: You are out and about and decide it’s that time of night to hit on a female. You approach her feeling good and ready to kick some game. The opener goes well, you’re having a great conversation and then, out of nowhere, the woman says she has to go. You are left confused wondering where things went wrong.
This can be an extremely frustrating aspect of picking up women online. With the hundreds of things that may have occurred during the course of one conversation, it is nearly impossible to pinpoint specifically where things went wrong.
Enter online dating.
One of the most beautiful aspects of online dating is that you have the ability to go back and save a conversation. Every single step of your pick up is right in front of you, all typed out.
This is an amazing gift, allowing you to study every aspect of your pick up and figure out where exactly things went wrong. It enables you to improve upon your mistakes, fix the kinks in your game, and be more prepared than ever for your next online pick up.
Copy and pasting is your best friend. Save your conversations and use them to your advantage.
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Instant messaging is one of the most advanced forms of online dating. It requires quick thinking and the ability to sustain high levels of interest amongst great competition.
Most men mistakenly believe that the line you open with is the most important aspect of an instant messaging conversation. The truth of the matter is, it is actually what comes after the instant message opener that really matters most.
The basic reason for this is that if a woman decides to open your instant message, odds are she will write back at least a courtesy response or hello. It is after this initial response that it is time to play ball.
The follow-up needs to be something that will ignite immediate interest, build attraction levels and win over your potential date. Instant messaging is a fast and furious game where women will lose interest if the pick up is not done correctly.
The only way this is done is by learning effective transition techniques and story builders that allow these things to happen naturally during the course of an online pick-up. Not only should learning how to transition be treated with utmost importance, but a successful online dater learns how to amp up the excitement more and more as each moment passes by.
Think of online pick-ups as an emotional snowball. We want the emotional highs to get bigger and bigger as we roll that snowball down hill.
This should be done throughout three of the four stages of instant message game, until we finally begin to build higher comfort levels.
I’m out of room for today. More next time!