Comments on: His Perspective: Love Without Commitment http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/07/his-perspective-love-without-commitment/ Where celebrities, experts and JDaters come to kibitz! Fri, 24 May 2013 02:30:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.1 By: Babs http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/07/his-perspective-love-without-commitment/comment-page-1/#comment-23661 Babs Tue, 03 Jan 2012 00:06:22 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=552#comment-23661 Too bad the author has not attempted to respond to the above comments, both of which pose some very good questions. What is the point of being able to make comments if there will be no response. It would be a mitzvah if someone who feels they have some "expert" advice would respond with some answers, opinions, or insights regarding how to know if you have reached "the point" where you may want to cut the other loose, especially when it comes to boomer age daters. How long should it take to figure out; how to you tactfully broach the subject? Too bad the author has not attempted to respond to the above comments, both of which pose some very good questions. What is the point of being able to make comments if there will be no response. It would be a mitzvah if someone who feels they have some “expert” advice would respond with some answers, opinions, or insights regarding how to know if you have reached “the point” where you may want to cut the other loose, especially when it comes to boomer age daters. How long should it take to figure out; how to you tactfully broach the subject?

]]> By: JLK68 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/07/his-perspective-love-without-commitment/comment-page-1/#comment-11892 JLK68 Mon, 25 Apr 2011 17:41:24 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=552#comment-11892 Wow, this is identical to my situation. I often feel I'm the good girlfriend who's just easy to get along with. He doesn't cheat or even flirt with other girls but I asked recently if he saw me in his future and he said he didn't know. I don't want to push him but I do want to know where he sees this going. How do I know we've reached "the point" where I need to cut him loose? Is it a gut feeling or is there something I can say to get an honest answer out if him? Wow, this is identical to my situation. I often feel I’m the good girlfriend who’s just easy to get along with. He doesn’t cheat or even flirt with other girls but I asked recently if he saw me in his future and he said he didn’t know. I don’t want to push him but I do want to know where he sees this going. How do I know we’ve reached “the point” where I need to cut him loose? Is it a gut feeling or is there something I can say to get an honest answer out if him?

]]> By: anonymous http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/07/his-perspective-love-without-commitment/comment-page-1/#comment-58 anonymous Sat, 05 Sep 2009 15:53:28 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=552#comment-58 Well I've got the oppossite problem. After 3 years its her not me who isn't interested in making a lifelong commitment to marriage. Why? Because, she says, we're well past having children so whats the point. Maybe I'm wasting my time in this relationshiop and I should be finding a woman who really does want to be married. Well I’ve got the oppossite problem. After 3 years its her not me who isn’t interested in making a lifelong commitment to marriage. Why? Because, she says, we’re well past having children so whats the point.

Maybe I’m wasting my time in this relationshiop and I should be finding a woman who really does want to be married.

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