Thank you

Here is my deal. I have been out with a lot of men. I also consider myself, in shape and attractive. I admit I have done 90% of the rejecting in my experience because there were deal breakers, like a long history of cheating or does not want children, but once it passes the first stage of one or two dates I am lost. Men change quickly. They lie. I have weeded a lot of them out by following your rules and NOT sleeping with them until monogamy (it’s amazing how that works), but it seems that once I let my guard down they disappear, like they smell vulnerability. I never chase and don’t reveal too much. Is it just a numbers game, or are most men who are still single above the age of 30 total jerks and commitment phobic? Don’t you think that internet dating has made it too easy for so many men to have there cake and eat it too, especially because some girls make it so easy?