Comments on: Patricia and Harry http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/09/patricia-and-harry/ Where celebrities, experts and JDaters come to kibitz! Wed, 22 May 2013 22:10:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.1 By: Patricia http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/09/patricia-and-harry/comment-page-1/#comment-1093 Patricia Mon, 11 Jan 2010 17:15:59 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=1582#comment-1093 Ladies Its all worth it in the end..the distance, the waiting, everything. Home is where you are loved and cherished for exactly who you are, and if that means you have to change countries, so be it. I have found that life is not about how well you deal with the easy stuff, its how well you deal with the tought stuff. I make no compromise in having a husband that lives in another country. He is worth it all. I wish that every girl could find a man like Harry. Keep your hearts and your minds open. xoxo Patricia Ladies

Its all worth it in the end..the distance, the waiting, everything.
Home is where you are loved and cherished for exactly who you are, and if that means you have to change countries, so be it.

I have found that life is not about how well you deal with the easy stuff, its how well you deal with the tought stuff. I make no compromise in having a husband that lives in another country. He is worth it all.

I wish that every girl could find a man like Harry.
Keep your hearts and your minds open.
xoxo
Patricia

]]> By: Eileen http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/09/patricia-and-harry/comment-page-1/#comment-322 Eileen Fri, 23 Oct 2009 02:39:51 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=1582#comment-322 Thinking "outside of the box" is tough and many of us settle for less then ideal relationships. Your story gives me renewed hope that fairytales can come true and we should not always do what is easiest, but rather do what our hearts and souls are calling out for. Congratualtions and best wishes to both of you! Thinking “outside of the box” is tough and many of us settle for less then ideal relationships. Your story gives me renewed hope that fairytales can come true and we should not always do what is easiest, but rather do what our hearts and souls are calling out for.
Congratualtions and best wishes to both of you!

]]> By: Tracy http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/09/patricia-and-harry/comment-page-1/#comment-256 Tracy Wed, 07 Oct 2009 12:33:25 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=1582#comment-256 This is my favorite success story.I totally relate to "searching outside your zip code" The chance of me meeting the unusual man that I seek close to home is highly unlikely. Your scenario although I am sure frustrating at times is what I see for myself. I have discovered a man that makes my heart pound,he is in another state. We have yet to meet,but I am working on it! This is my favorite success story.I totally relate to “searching outside your zip code” The chance of me meeting the unusual man that I seek close to home is highly unlikely. Your scenario although I am sure frustrating at times is what I see for myself. I have discovered
a man that makes my heart pound,he is in another state. We have yet to meet,but I am working on it!

]]> By: Patricia http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/09/patricia-and-harry/comment-page-1/#comment-239 Patricia Sun, 04 Oct 2009 21:29:27 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=1582#comment-239 Hi Jenn Thanks for your comment. Not only should you look in other places, but you also should not settle for anything less that what you really want. Home is where you want it to be. Hi Jenn

Thanks for your comment.
Not only should you look in other places, but you also should not settle for anything less that what you really want.

Home is where you want it to be.

]]> By: Jenn http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/09/patricia-and-harry/comment-page-1/#comment-220 Jenn Fri, 02 Oct 2009 19:42:53 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=1582#comment-220 THANK YOU, Patricia, for validating my feeling that it's more important to look for the right person than just the nearby one, and that I'm not out of my gourd for contacting men who are far away. You have given me renewed hope. :-) Best wishes to both of you, Jenn THANK YOU, Patricia, for validating my feeling that it’s more important to look for the right person than just the nearby one, and that I’m not out of my gourd for contacting men who are far away. You have given me renewed hope. :-)

Best wishes to both of you,

Jenn

]]> By: Nanette http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/09/patricia-and-harry/comment-page-1/#comment-92 Nanette Sat, 12 Sep 2009 16:49:14 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=1582#comment-92 Congratulations, Harry was my FIRST Jdate date back in 2004, always knew someone very special would end up with Harry. Mazaltoff (sp) haha Congratulations, Harry was my FIRST Jdate date back in 2004, always knew someone very special would end up with Harry.

Mazaltoff (sp) haha

]]> By: Patricia http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/09/patricia-and-harry/comment-page-1/#comment-83 Patricia Fri, 11 Sep 2009 21:31:01 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=1582#comment-83 Hi!! In response to Nadine and Michele... Neither of us are planning to move to either country right now. We both knew that going into this. Harry has children and extended family in LA and I have children in Toronto. Our kids are our first priority. It is tough sometimes. We miss each other always. We travel back and forth quite a bit and we cherish the time that we have together. We dont take each other for granted when we are together. We talk an enormous amount on the phone. We probably talk more than most married couples and I think that this is key. We cannot rely on a touch to express feelings, so we have to use words. We have the most incredible friendship. I think that so much of what we do for each other, emotionaly, comes from the journeys that we have both had. We have had such similar experiences that alot is simply already understood. One day, when our youngest children have grown, and we feel they do not need us as much, we will move somewhere that we both dream of. For now, I feel blessed and so fortunate to have found a man that loves me exactly the way that I am. And that is how I know he feels. And that is why we can be married...happily... and live in different countries. L'Shanah Tova. Patricia Hi!!
In response to Nadine and Michele…

Neither of us are planning to move to either country right now.
We both knew that going into this. Harry has children and extended family in LA and I have children in Toronto. Our kids are our first priority. It is tough sometimes. We miss each other always.

We travel back and forth quite a bit and we cherish the time that we have together. We dont take each other for granted when we are together. We talk an enormous amount on the phone. We probably talk more than most married couples and I think that this is key.
We cannot rely on a touch to express feelings, so we have to use words.

We have the most incredible friendship. I think that so much of what we do for each other, emotionaly, comes from the journeys that we have both had. We have had such similar experiences that alot is simply already understood.

One day, when our youngest children have grown, and we feel they do not need us as much, we will move somewhere that we both dream of. For now, I feel blessed and so fortunate to have found a man that loves me exactly the way that I am. And that is how I know he feels. And that is why we can be married…happily… and live in different countries.

L’Shanah Tova.
Patricia

]]> By: Nadine http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/09/patricia-and-harry/comment-page-1/#comment-67 Nadine Mon, 07 Sep 2009 22:56:25 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=1582#comment-67 are you eventually planning one of you to move and live together in the same place? are you eventually planning one of you to move and live together in the same place?

]]> By: Michele http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/09/patricia-and-harry/comment-page-1/#comment-61 Michele Sun, 06 Sep 2009 00:51:55 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=1582#comment-61 Sounds an incredible story, but how on earth does the marriage work if you are both living in different places? Sounds an incredible story, but how on earth does the marriage work if you are both living in different places?

]]> By: Miriam Neumark http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2009/09/patricia-and-harry/comment-page-1/#comment-50 Miriam Neumark Thu, 03 Sep 2009 03:00:25 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=1582#comment-50 Mazel Tov Patricia and Harry, That is the beauty and possibilites in 21st Century social networking . You have proven that, with your jdate success story.. Jdate made it possible to expand your options in order to find your Beshert.. Congratulations on your courage to go beyond your comfort zone to find each other across the miles. May you be blessed with many Happy Years together !! Cheers, Miriam, Toronto , Canada Mazel Tov Patricia and Harry,
That is the beauty and possibilites in 21st Century social networking .
You have proven that, with your jdate success story..

Jdate made it possible to expand your options in order to find your Beshert..
Congratulations on your courage to go beyond your comfort zone to find each other across the miles.
May you be blessed with many Happy Years together !!
Cheers,
Miriam, Toronto , Canada

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