Comments on: I Got a Nikon Camera; I Love to Take a Photograph

By: Sharon, Israel

Sharon, Israel — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 06:37:34 +0000

Hey Fred,
I agree pictures are a necessary screener when it comes to online dating, but pics aren’t the whole picture. Guys are very visual, you are right on about that, but taste is very subjective. I know plenty of average looking women, who are married to handsome men. In their eyes they are the most beautiful women in the world. I know of gorgeous women who always turn heads when entering a room, though still single (and know, they are not picky snobs who think there’s no one out there good enough for them).

Attraction doesn’t have rules. Looks is important to make it happen, but it’s not the whole story.
I bet you wouldn’t date a hot girl who has no intelligence.

By: fred

fred — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 22:06:10 +0000

I agree with Brad esp for men who are more visual than women . If he doesn’t like your photo no matter how much you write about yourself he will not contact you period! Men have a fall back if the women is not as crazy about his photo but sees he will be a good provider she will often overlook it and give him a shot! No man approches a women cause of her sweet personality or education ! He approches her b/c he thinks she’s hot! Right on Brad

By: Jerry

Jerry — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 00:25:13 +0000

Susan, from a guy’s point a view, I would go out with a girl I hadn’t seen. From the few dates I have had with a girl with no photo, if they mention they are attractive in their profile, I have taken the risk and they have turned out to be attractive. However, trying to get a second date from them is another story. Unfortunately, I am finding that on the 3 years I have been on Jdate less and less girls are putting a photo on their profile, so sometimes there’s no choice but to date them if you’re lucky enough to get a date from them. When I started on JDate however 9 out of 10 girls wanted to see a photo of me, although I hadn’t posted one. Therefore I think girls go for photos as much as guys even if guys appear to go for looks more than girls.

By: Susan

Susan — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 23:24:09 +0000

Brad,
I agree. It is so frustrating when you have to squint to see someone’s face, or try and figure out which one they are in a group shot – not to be vain, but let’s face it, would you go out with someone you’d never actually seen? Not to mention, I want to be sure it’s not a guy from my office

By: Brad Berkowitz

Brad Berkowitz — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 18:24:54 +0000

Brett, you are frequently correct. People will tend to post the best photo of themselves and sometimes they have changed. Perhaps the photo is out of date. That is why I recommend people have accurate photos on the site.

Sharon, there is definitely more to a person than looks, but people will tend to pass by profiles if they don’t like the photos. You always want to put your best foot forward.

Brad

By: Brett

Brett — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 00:55:24 +0000

I don’t actually agree with the story. Surprisingly, I have found that people with a great photo don’t look that good in person, whereas people with an ordinary looking photo look better in person.

By: Sharon, Israel

Sharon, Israel — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 09:45:09 +0000

Hi Brad.
I like your advice, though I wouldn’t want someone to take interest in me, just ’cause of my figure. That’s why my pics, show me from head to weist, rather than to toe although I am thin.
I know that boys will be boys, but nowadays being gorgeous doesn’t always bring a man to commit.
Plus, in the long run you need some substance in order to be attracted to someone, since looks fades.

P.S.
Where can we catch the “Mazal Tov” story of you and your Mrs.?

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