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How to Turn a First Date into a Second Date

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Men are visual. They can’t help but judge a woman based on their first impression of her. If you want to turn a first date into a second date, follow these rules and you’ll be second dating in no time.

1. Smile time
A smile goes a long way. Men enjoy being around happy and care free people. If you like your date, make sure to smile. And then smile some more. After all, what man doesn’t love a woman’s smile?

2. Be flirtatious
Flirting is sexy. Everyone enjoys a flirtatious woman. If you’re having fun on your date, use your flirting skills to show that you want to go on another date.

3. Show some confidence
Confidence is one of the sexiest qualities a woman can have. If you want to turn a man on, act confident and he will immediately be drawn to you.

4. Get involved
Men enjoy dating someone who, in addition to talking, can listen. Show you’re a good listener by asking questions. If you get to know your date, he will want to get to know you too.

Don’t forget, men love the whole package. Dating is all about being the best version of you!

Carly Spindel is a writer and hopeless romantic. Carly is a world traveler who has lived in Paris and London. She resides in New York and is currently looking for Mr. Right. You can learn more about her at www.carlysdatingchronicles.com
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  • bogga says:

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  • Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.

  • Ellen says:

    1. Come dressed appropriately – not too sexy so he can concentrate on you, not your assets

    2. Do not discuss your divorce, your past relationships/breakups

    3. Discuss basic subjects – do not discuss politics or religion

    4. Do not bring a friend along or let him come to your home on the first date

    5. Don’t be too assertive or aggressive – let him lead the way

    6. If you have sex with him to seal the deal, don’t be certain he will call again

    7. Discuss your interests that are different from his – acting like you like everything he does can make you seem boring to him

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