Comments on: Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger: How to Get Married in a Year http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/01/millionaire-matchmaker-patti-stanger-how-to-get-married-in-a-year/ Where celebrities, experts and JDaters come to kibitz! Tue, 18 Jun 2013 14:48:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.1 By: Qua Best Dating Sites http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/01/millionaire-matchmaker-patti-stanger-how-to-get-married-in-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-190491 Qua Best Dating Sites Tue, 30 Apr 2013 07:14:50 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=16061#comment-190491 Using Patti's dating advice, you might be able to get married in a year. The downside is - you might be getting divorced in the following year. I really don't see the point of molding yourself into a different person in order to attract a mate. Why should a business woman try to craft herself into someone more "feminine" for the first several dates? Why not just be herself and find someone who loves that "masculine" part of her? With all the available options to meet people these days and the millions of singles out there - all with a variety of preferences - I think the best bet (to get married AND stay married) is to be yourself and find someone who digs that. Using Patti’s dating advice, you might be able to get married in a year. The downside is – you might be getting divorced in the following year.
I really don’t see the point of molding yourself into a different person in order to attract a mate. Why should a business woman try to craft herself into someone more “feminine” for the first several dates? Why not just be herself and find someone who loves that “masculine” part of her?

With all the available options to meet people these days and the millions of singles out there – all with a variety of preferences – I think the best bet (to get married AND stay married) is to be yourself and find someone who digs that.

]]> By: Simon http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/01/millionaire-matchmaker-patti-stanger-how-to-get-married-in-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-34271 Simon Sun, 01 Apr 2012 00:12:42 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=16061#comment-34271 Patti's advice is shallow, judgemental, and to me clearly misses the mark of what love actually is. Her advice is appropriate for ChatRoutlette (next!) but not for human beings who love you. Does she seriously recommend putting "flowers on my birthday" on your must-have list? Wouldn't integrity and character be more worthwhile to mention? In a word, Ugh. Patti’s advice is shallow, judgemental, and to me clearly misses the mark of what love actually is. Her advice is appropriate for ChatRoutlette (next!) but not for human beings who love you.

Does she seriously recommend putting “flowers on my birthday” on your must-have list? Wouldn’t integrity and character be more worthwhile to mention?

In a word, Ugh.

]]> By: Angela http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/01/millionaire-matchmaker-patti-stanger-how-to-get-married-in-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-32371 Angela Sat, 03 Mar 2012 19:17:13 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=16061#comment-32371 Brutal honesty is what I love about this woman. She's not asking anyone to change, but to have an action plan and make improvements if you want to find love and be married in a year. We can all use some kind of improvement, right? It's true... what is the purpose of dating someone for over a year if you have different long-term goals? Brutal honesty is what I love about this woman. She’s not asking anyone to change, but to have an action plan and make improvements if you want to find love and be married in a year. We can all use some kind of improvement, right? It’s true… what is the purpose of dating someone for over a year if you have different long-term goals?

]]> By: Patty-Jo http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/01/millionaire-matchmaker-patti-stanger-how-to-get-married-in-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-29061 Patty-Jo Wed, 08 Feb 2012 21:43:20 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=16061#comment-29061 She is right on - valuable information She is right on – valuable information

]]> By: betzelel http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/01/millionaire-matchmaker-patti-stanger-how-to-get-married-in-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-27551 betzelel Wed, 01 Feb 2012 01:47:26 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=16061#comment-27551 hello, i had some questions about what is appropriate for meeting new potential women who are interested in marriage in Jewish culture. i have a feeling that i might be a little out of touch due to being a convert to Judaism and not having been raised in a Jewish community. I guess what i have been looking for is someone whom i can spiritually grow with, and who is possibly into Kabbalah, as that is a main passion of mine -it was what brought me to Judiasm. however i have been getting a sense that Kabbalah is considered a Neanderthal belief system. is this considered a turn off to women in the Jewish community? i am asking because i really have no idea. shalom :-) thanks for taking the time to read - Luke hello,
i had some questions about what is appropriate for meeting new potential women who are interested in marriage in Jewish culture. i have a feeling that i might be a little out of touch due to being a convert to Judaism and not having been raised in a Jewish community. I guess what i have been looking for is someone whom i can spiritually grow with, and who is possibly into Kabbalah, as that is a main passion of mine -it was what brought me to Judiasm. however i have been getting a sense that Kabbalah is considered a Neanderthal belief system. is this considered a turn off to women in the Jewish community? i am asking because i really have no idea.
shalom :-)
thanks for taking the time to read
- Luke

]]> By: Vanessa http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/01/millionaire-matchmaker-patti-stanger-how-to-get-married-in-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-19162 Vanessa Fri, 28 Oct 2011 12:51:12 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=16061#comment-19162 I'm 33 now, and what I've noticed is that men LOVE LOVE LOVE the chase. It's innate. I genuinely am not interested in ever getting married, yet I've been proposed to three times, by successful, loving, genuinely good guys. I am no bombshell - just a regular girl, have my own life and career. Whether you choose to accept it or not, dating is a game of psychology. I made it clear to these men that I do not wish to get married, let's just go with the flow, enjoy everyday as it comes, no pressure. And almost like clockwork, within 6-9 months a ring appeared, and totally blind-sided me. They went from men that were also not caring about marriage or children, to men who said things like 'I can see my children in your eyes'. I'm not kidding. I’m 33 now, and what I’ve noticed is that men LOVE LOVE LOVE the chase. It’s innate.

I genuinely am not interested in ever getting married, yet I’ve been proposed to three times, by successful, loving, genuinely good guys.

I am no bombshell – just a regular girl, have my own life and career.

Whether you choose to accept it or not, dating is a game of psychology. I made it clear to these men that I do not wish to get married, let’s just go with the flow, enjoy everyday as it comes, no pressure. And almost like clockwork, within 6-9 months a ring appeared, and totally blind-sided me.

They went from men that were also not caring about marriage or children, to men who said things like ‘I can see my children in your eyes’. I’m not kidding.

]]> By: guest http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/01/millionaire-matchmaker-patti-stanger-how-to-get-married-in-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-18531 guest Fri, 14 Oct 2011 18:58:57 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=16061#comment-18531 Hi Lol great article , was a really good read thanks Hi

Lol great article , was a really good read

thanks

]]> By: colleen http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/01/millionaire-matchmaker-patti-stanger-how-to-get-married-in-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-17771 colleen Fri, 30 Sep 2011 00:51:53 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=16061#comment-17771 i dont think patty is telling us to totally change.just let the men chase us.and why dont we deserve the spoiling?we as wolmen do everything.ive had 3 rong men.and in the marrage i took controll.maby its ok to be pampered.and i deserve to be earned not juat taken.i have to ay i get it. i dont think patty is telling us to totally change.just let the men chase us.and why dont we deserve the spoiling?we as wolmen do everything.ive had 3 rong men.and in the marrage i took controll.maby its ok to be pampered.and i deserve to be earned not juat taken.i have to ay i get it.

]]> By: maria http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/01/millionaire-matchmaker-patti-stanger-how-to-get-married-in-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-14972 maria Mon, 29 Aug 2011 14:28:02 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=16061#comment-14972 I think Millionaire Matchmaker is a great show and Patti is very smart and honest. I really think she is a genuine person. I wish Patti would use her own book advice "Married in 1 year" and get married. She would be such a great wife and mother! I think Millionaire Matchmaker is a great show and Patti is very smart and honest. I really think she is a genuine person. I wish Patti would use her own book advice “Married in 1 year” and get married. She would be such a great wife and mother!

]]> By: Misha http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/01/millionaire-matchmaker-patti-stanger-how-to-get-married-in-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-14562 Misha Tue, 16 Aug 2011 11:04:25 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=16061#comment-14562 Great article Great article

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