Of course, women want someone who is interested in touching them, but they know a few things about being physical and the male brain. First of all, if they are aggressive, they might scare the guy away. Second, if they let him do something, they establish a high water mark, and that activitiy is now on the menu going forward. Third, if they are too easy, he might loose interest. Forth, they can get STDs or preggers. So, the usual result is playing hard to get.

A woman’s sex organ is between her ears. You cannot get anywhere physically with a woman unless you connect emotionally, but I think you understand that. So, if you feel an emotional connection and wait too many dates to kiss and hug her, she’ll think you are not interested. So, step up to the plate.

My advice is to get in touch with your senses. Observe her posture and her vocal tone and rate, her eyes, her lips, and her skin tone. When you feel the connection, lean in slowlly and kiss her gently. If she pulls back, then you’ll get the message. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.