Now, there are two aspects to dating that are important in what is essentially a pairing-off game. First, there are the things you bring to the table including your looks, your education, your skills, your income, your sense of humor, and of course, your dating skills. Second, the size of the dating pool in your area for women that meet your requirements, including appearance, size and weight, education, income, religion, politics, have kids, want kids, etc.

For the first thing, you can most easily work on your appearance and your dating skills. Lots of books on Amazon for those things. Also, if you can take the brutality of it, ask you failed dates to tell you why they lost interest. It’s gonna hurt, but the information can be quite valuable to help you make yourself the best you possible.

For the second thing, if you’re looking for a young Jewish lady in Swamville, then forget it. If possible, move to a major city, NYC being the best for the largest population of single Jewish women. She’s out there. Just increase your odds of finding her.

Learn to appreciate women for the unpredictable, exciting, flawed, beautiful creatures they are first. Once you do, you won’t expect some fantasy, and will have the knowledge about yourself, and women in general, to handle the right one.