Comments on: Is There Hope That He’ll Come To His Senses? http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/12/is-there-hope-that-hell-come-to-his-senses/ Where celebrities, experts and JDaters come to kibitz! Mon, 20 May 2013 03:59:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.1 By: Arjun Srinivasan http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2011/12/is-there-hope-that-hell-come-to-his-senses/comment-page-1/#comment-25391 Arjun Srinivasan Thu, 19 Jan 2012 02:27:17 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=42031#comment-25391 There is another alternative. It just maybe that he is saying that he does not want to have to prioritize his love life. Meaning, you should both be flexible on doing nothing, even if you had a special day planned. A love life can be seen as a place of rest and re-charge, and sometimes we all need a 'let's just hang out, stay at home, and watch a movie day' even if something major had been planned. Avoid having to schedule time together - just let it happen. Give him a couple of days, and call him and ask him if he wants to hang out, but this time around let him know that you are willing to be more easy going with your days off so that you can both re-charge. Long term relationship success is not about giving up so easily. It's about getting through these kinds of challenges. Not to say that this relationship MUST work. But try a little harder by being more relaxed. When we confront someone at a time when they need to rest & re-charge, they generally do not respond in a way that they would respond in a well-rested state. So he too may be waiting for the call. Best! There is another alternative. It just maybe that he is saying that he does not want to have to prioritize his love life. Meaning, you should both be flexible on doing nothing, even if you had a special day planned. A love life can be seen as a place of rest and re-charge, and sometimes we all need a ‘let’s just hang out, stay at home, and watch a movie day’ even if something major had been planned. Avoid having to schedule time together – just let it happen.

Give him a couple of days, and call him and ask him if he wants to hang out, but this time around let him know that you are willing to be more easy going with your days off so that you can both re-charge.

Long term relationship success is not about giving up so easily. It’s about getting through these kinds of challenges. Not to say that this relationship MUST work. But try a little harder by being more relaxed.

When we confront someone at a time when they need to rest & re-charge, they generally do not respond in a way that they would respond in a well-rested state. So he too may be waiting for the call.

Best!

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