Comments on: How to Spot a Homing Pigeon – Part II http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2012/01/how-to-spot-a-homing-pigeon-%e2%80%93-part-ii/ Where celebrities, experts and JDaters come to kibitz! Tue, 18 Jun 2013 14:48:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.1 By: Holly http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2012/01/how-to-spot-a-homing-pigeon-%e2%80%93-part-ii/comment-page-1/#comment-29381 Holly Sat, 11 Feb 2012 03:42:54 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=46241#comment-29381 I dated someone for years who couldn't commit but for whom I could check off most of these categories--owned his apt; didn't insist on sex right away; had married friends and family and wanted me to meet them; mid-30s; very interested in me and my life. Although he had a full head of hair...so that's where I went wrong! I dated someone for years who couldn’t commit but for whom I could check off most of these categories–owned his apt; didn’t insist on sex right away; had married friends and family and wanted me to meet them; mid-30s; very interested in me and my life. Although he had a full head of hair…so that’s where I went wrong!

]]> By: Ms. Avi http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2012/01/how-to-spot-a-homing-pigeon-%e2%80%93-part-ii/comment-page-1/#comment-28101 Ms. Avi Fri, 03 Feb 2012 20:17:21 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=46241#comment-28101 Dear Jeff, Question #1: Are your picture/profile honest? Question #2: Are your pictures recent? Question #3: Are you an engaging conversationalist? Question #4: Are you only contacting women who are out of your league or not age appropriate? I don't know anything about you, but sometimes men looking for marriage (who are late 30's-40's) come off wreaking of wanting to get married. They look at the date not as an excuse to have fun and meet someone new, but they treat it as an interview. You should ask for honest feedback from the women you've had first dates with and ask what you could do to improve your skills or appearance. Feel free to email me and we can discuss further. Ms. Avi avi@msavitheyenta.com Dear Jeff,
Question #1: Are your picture/profile honest?
Question #2: Are your pictures recent?
Question #3: Are you an engaging conversationalist?
Question #4: Are you only contacting women who are out of your league or not age appropriate?

I don’t know anything about you, but sometimes men looking for marriage (who are late 30′s-40′s) come off wreaking of wanting to get married. They look at the date not as an excuse to have fun and meet someone new, but they treat it as an interview.

You should ask for honest feedback from the women you’ve had first dates with and ask what you could do to improve your skills or appearance. Feel free to email me and we can discuss further.

Ms. Avi
avi@msavitheyenta.com

]]> By: Daniel http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2012/01/how-to-spot-a-homing-pigeon-%e2%80%93-part-ii/comment-page-1/#comment-27971 Daniel Thu, 02 Feb 2012 23:58:10 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=46241#comment-27971 Leslie, I can assure you I'm not being sarcastic! Leslie, I can assure you I’m not being sarcastic!

]]> By: Jeff http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2012/01/how-to-spot-a-homing-pigeon-%e2%80%93-part-ii/comment-page-1/#comment-27961 Jeff Thu, 02 Feb 2012 23:57:16 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=46241#comment-27961 Avi, can you please write an article for a guy to spot a lady who wants to marry. I have add over 100 1st coffee JDates with no second date and I have tried! I happen to be friendly, handsome and considerate too! Avi, can you please write an article for a guy to spot a lady who wants to marry. I have add over 100 1st coffee JDates with no second date and I have tried! I happen to be friendly, handsome and considerate too!

]]> By: Leslie http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2012/01/how-to-spot-a-homing-pigeon-%e2%80%93-part-ii/comment-page-1/#comment-27651 Leslie Wed, 01 Feb 2012 18:41:48 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=46241#comment-27651 There might be a hint of sarcasm in this article, but Daniel, I have to agree with a few of Ms. Avi's hints. A man who introduces you to his married friends is definately more open then a man who just hangs out with his guys in Vegas. The man looking for marriage is going to be exclusive with you if you're the right person, because he is looking for something serious. The owning a house or condo thing is semi legit depending on location (in NYC maybe not since everything is so expensive.) But no single man not thinking about marriage is going to buy the 3-bedroom condo/house unless he's thinking about the future! There might be a hint of sarcasm in this article, but Daniel, I have to agree with a few of Ms. Avi’s hints.

A man who introduces you to his married friends is definately more open then a man who just hangs out with his guys in Vegas. The man looking for marriage is going to be exclusive with you if you’re the right person, because he is looking for something serious.

The owning a house or condo thing is semi legit depending on location (in NYC maybe not since everything is so expensive.) But no single man not thinking about marriage is going to buy the 3-bedroom condo/house unless he’s thinking about the future!

]]> By: Daniel http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2012/01/how-to-spot-a-homing-pigeon-%e2%80%93-part-ii/comment-page-1/#comment-27501 Daniel Tue, 31 Jan 2012 23:28:39 +0000 http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=46241#comment-27501 Ladies, please don't take Avi's advice as words of wisdom, otherwise, guys who generally want to be married like myself, certainly don't follow his steps, at least not all of them! There would be a lot less marriages if Avi's advice was followed! Ladies, please don’t take Avi’s advice as words of wisdom, otherwise, guys who generally want to be married like myself, certainly don’t follow his steps, at least not all of them! There would be a lot less marriages if Avi’s advice was followed!

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