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	<title>Comments on: Negative Nellies Need Not Apply</title>
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		<title>By: Margaret</title>
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		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Dec 2012 11:02:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is real good advice! I had not been aware that women statistically tend to be more negative, perhaps it&#039;s because they write more or want to be understood more? Personally I love sarcasm and a thing like oh-I-can&#039;t-live-without-Dolly-Parton (say) would rather get my interest. However, yes - so much comes over so negative,even if not intended as a slap to the reader&#039;s face. I notice that in everyday life. Sometimes I comment on an initial observation that then turns out to be a WRONG observation.. and my, how to apologise and go into the But-I-thought.. a total nightmare. It&#039;s a tricky thing to say what you want and be interesting - I tend to read between the lines, occupation and such and then ask questions and then see whether the answer is interesting and sparkly. 
My 16-year old son says it in the words of his generation: haters will hate. So: lovers will love, right? (Please picture the flowers, pink ponies and rainbows and such around this post yourself, ok.. oh and music: 10h nyam cat)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is real good advice! I had not been aware that women statistically tend to be more negative, perhaps it&#8217;s because they write more or want to be understood more? Personally I love sarcasm and a thing like oh-I-can&#8217;t-live-without-Dolly-Parton (say) would rather get my interest. However, yes &#8211; so much comes over so negative,even if not intended as a slap to the reader&#8217;s face. I notice that in everyday life. Sometimes I comment on an initial observation that then turns out to be a WRONG observation.. and my, how to apologise and go into the But-I-thought.. a total nightmare. It&#8217;s a tricky thing to say what you want and be interesting &#8211; I tend to read between the lines, occupation and such and then ask questions and then see whether the answer is interesting and sparkly.<br />
My 16-year old son says it in the words of his generation: haters will hate. So: lovers will love, right? (Please picture the flowers, pink ponies and rainbows and such around this post yourself, ok.. oh and music: 10h nyam cat)</p>
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		<title>By: Gertridge Poch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gertridge Poch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Nov 2012 08:09:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>■Cowboys fans need not apply. Just come right in, you&#039;re welcome to skip the line.
 ■If you’re looking for a fling, look the other way. That&#039;s the direction where my little black ball I rolled up after picking my nose is flung.
 ■No drama, please! Comedy, horror, action, suspense, okay... Sophocles, go to the end of the line.
 ■If you’re into country music, forget about it. I say it, because you can&#039;t forget about him if you&#039;re into country music. That&#039;s why you&#039;re into country music in the first place.
 ■If you’re a cat-lover, move right along. Herd your cats out of here already, up to chicago if you want to even. The Great Cat Drive of 1868.
 ■Don’t write to me if you’re not looking for a serious relationship. Write to my flung fling instead.
 ■Douche bags need not apply! (Taken from someone’s actual profile… I can’t make this stuff up.)== this I totally believe. The prez and owner of PoF says in his welcome page, &quot;blah, blah, blah, but if you are a jerk, we&#039;ll get rid of you, blah, blah, blah&quot; 
well, that&#039;s a nice how-do-you-do by the owner of a basically social website. I hate that guy with all my might.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>■Cowboys fans need not apply. Just come right in, you&#8217;re welcome to skip the line.<br />
 ■If you’re looking for a fling, look the other way. That&#8217;s the direction where my little black ball I rolled up after picking my nose is flung.<br />
 ■No drama, please! Comedy, horror, action, suspense, okay&#8230; Sophocles, go to the end of the line.<br />
 ■If you’re into country music, forget about it. I say it, because you can&#8217;t forget about him if you&#8217;re into country music. That&#8217;s why you&#8217;re into country music in the first place.<br />
 ■If you’re a cat-lover, move right along. Herd your cats out of here already, up to chicago if you want to even. The Great Cat Drive of 1868.<br />
 ■Don’t write to me if you’re not looking for a serious relationship. Write to my flung fling instead.<br />
 ■Douche bags need not apply! (Taken from someone’s actual profile… I can’t make this stuff up.)== this I totally believe. The prez and owner of PoF says in his welcome page, &#8220;blah, blah, blah, but if you are a jerk, we&#8217;ll get rid of you, blah, blah, blah&#8221;<br />
well, that&#8217;s a nice how-do-you-do by the owner of a basically social website. I hate that guy with all my might.</p>
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		<title>By: Heidi Cooper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heidi Cooper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2012 01:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nicely written, thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nicely written, thanks!</p>
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