Dating can be quite difficult. Sometimes it takes a few minutes to get comfortable in a dating situation. But, learning how to be at ease wherever you are will allow you to always have fun.
The number one way to feel comfortable in any situation is to always be confident. No matter where you are, people are drawn to confidence. If you walk into a date feeling like a million dollars, your date will be impressed.
You have to always have a smile on your face. Happy people attract other happy people. Think of a smile like your wallet. When you leave home, you wouldn’t forget your wallet. So, don’t go anywhere without your smile.
A sense of style is important when you are dating. You should always look your best because you never know who might run into. Your husband could be around the corner and if you are dressed like a schlub, you aren’t going to want to talk to him. The minute you walk outside your front door, you should look like a superstar.
Intelligence will go a long way. In addition to your natural beauty, your brain is an important part of you. . Both men and women are attracted to intelligent people. You should familiarize yourself with all different types of topics. Show off your knowledge. Wisdom is sexy.
The next thing to keep in mind is to be polite and well mannered. No one enjoys being around a rude person. You should always be nice to others because kindness is contagious. If you are exceptionally polite, people will always want to be around you.
To ensure that you feel comfortable in any dating situation, remember to always be positive. No one wants to be around a “Debbie Downer.” If you are optimistic and have good energy, others will notice it and be in awe of you.
Good posture is sometimes forgotten. People don’t always stand up straight and appear proud. You own your body, so let everyone know that it’s yours. Do you ever see a person with great posture and think they look very statuesque? Well if you are mindful of your posture, you can be elegant as well!
Last but not least, being funny can help you feel more comfortable. Humor is appreciated no matter where you are. People love to hear jokes. If you tell a funny joke and someone overhears it, they will want to talk to you. If you want to be comfortable in any situation, be funny. Everyone loves funny.
Carly Spindel is a writer and hopeless romantic. Carly is a world traveler who has lived in Paris and London. She resides in New York and is currently looking for Mr. Right. You can learn more about her at www.carlysdatingchronicles.com
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