You want secrets? I got answers.
When it comes to meeting women online, I have discovered just about all you need to know. No matter who you are, or what you look like, I can train any man to meet any woman online.
How? Because I have spent years studying the female mind, the intricacies of online dating, and learning exactly what makes women develop attraction towards us.
And I don’t mean in a sleazy or manipulative way. It is simply a matter of learning to become a master of human relationships.
Whether you are looking for long lasting love, a date, or a casual fun time, I’m your man. I have helped men all over the world, and now I am going to help you.
But first thing is first. In order to become successful, we’re going to have to take things one step at a time.
Being successful with women is a skill just like anything else in life that we all must work at.
So what better place to start then with a break down of the way the female mind works? If we are going to pick up women successfully, we need to understand their thought process and exactly what causes females to become attracted to us.
So for today’s article I want you all to grasp one critical fact about the female mind:
I have found over the years that the looks you are born with do not make or break how successful you are with women.
Let’s repeat that one more time. Everybody say it with me nice and slow…
The – looks – you – are – born – with – do – not – make – or – break – how – successful – you – are – with – women!
Many of you might be wondering how this could possibly be true, especially in the world of online dating where women judge you based on pictures?
Simple. I believe that evolution is the main cause.
If you see the female and male mind the way I do, it seems that the male mind and the female mind are wired completely differently due to thousands of years of evolution.
Just looking around in every day life, males seem to be visual creatures by nature. In my opinion and the opinion of many scientists, this is mostly likely because thousands of years of evolution have taught us to hunt for the most beautiful women in order to ensure the best chance of reproduction. A healthy looking woman meant a higher chance of success. It is our instinct.
Women are different. Looks are only one of eleven ways they develop attraction towards us. Lucky for us, according to my own personal research and experience, it seems that women can become attracted to us for 10 reasons that have nothing to do with looks. And almost all women seem to respond to the exact same methods.
All we have to do is find ways to incorporate these ten methods into the online dating world!
For example: It can be argued that women are programmed by evolution to seek out men with high social value. Ever notice how many women gravitate towards men that have tons of friends, jobs of power, etc.? This is a major attraction builder.
If we place pictures that show us in positions of high social value, or write our profiles in ways that imply this value, we are instantly tapping into attraction.
“Then why do women seem to only care about looks online?”
Good question! I believe women WILL only focus on looks, if we don’t tap into the other 10 attraction builders, since they will have nothing else to go on.
This is why the words we write in our profiles and messages are so critical to success.
Even worse, as easy as it is to build attraction by understanding the female mind, I have found over the years that there are even more ways to destroy it. This is why it is essential we break down the female mind over the course of the next year.
So join me over the next year, as every two weeks I will be teaching you everything you need to know to achieve success.
Do I have all the answers? I sure think so. You decide!
In the next article we will be discussing the power of using “online conversation seeds” and building comfort. Until next time, good luck!
Joshua Pompey is a contributor to JDATE. See more of Joshua Pompey's articles here.
